I don't like women who have more expectations from other women than their own husbands regarding their children
They're so quick to blame their own mothers, mothers in law, sisters, friends etc when something goes wrong. They expect other women to be available, do favours, provide childcare, know how to take care of their children, meanwhile the fathers may not have a clue in the world but it's okay.
And same for fathers, they will pass their child on to any woman they can find available.
If I wanted to be responsible for a child, I'd have my own.