These things are for the parents not the children. Why are you trying to live through your child? It is sexualizing her. Think about that. Sports or other learning hobbies would benefit her more.
@Magenta Hi, M. How's life? I have 2 inches of snow since this am and steadily snowing. I hear you. Those pageants are for the adults. I still think of Jon Benet Ramsay and what happened to her. Tragic. And all those girls. Forced to do things. Given sugary crap to keep their energy up. Long practicing hours of dance, etc. It is beyond words.