Who thinks that being a homemaker is a perfectly valid occupation?

I'm pretty sure I want to follow my mum and be a fulltime home-maker.
i want to be looked after and provided for, and in return I will look after the house and our children. I think it will be really fulfilling - watching my Mum it's hard work but even so..
I think traditional relationships have become under-rated - its not that men and women are not equal, but that we have different strengths and weaknesses and compliment each other perfectly as a result.
Its really sad that many people look on being a home-maker as a sort of second best option. And I want to be there for my children too.I think its really selfish to prioritize your career over your children.

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Adogslife · 61-69, M

It didn’t work in my first marriage, but I will give my ex a 10/10 for being a great mother, and that has incredible value.

In the US it’s very difficult for a man to be a sole provider and make enough so that his family lives well. It’s often difficult when both parents work. Being a stay at home mom appears to be a luxury from my standpoint.

Despite the fact, if done well, it can be the hardest job in the world, resentment can build when there’s one paycheck, a continuous “honey do” list and limited sex. Maybe it’ll work for you, but be careful of the pitfalls. Your financial needs falling on his back 100% of the time… trust me, it gets old.