She is 10 years old

@SW-User o I believe 100% you are. I think she wouldve felt like you took her choice away from her and caused friction in your relationship, then again, it may turn out not good, which can cause friction. But as time goes on and she discovers the fkd up ways of this fkd up world she will realize it wasn't your fault. You just did the best you could with what you had and knew and all your choices will tell a story of a mother's love for her daughter...

I donated sperm to make a person, but I still owe a bunch of $. I thought sperm donors got paid??? Fuck, just another dick in the ass from this POS world, story of my life . See, she just wanted a kid regardless, preferably with a dude that would go away, but still pay her every month, while she make all the decisions concerning the kid. I mean, I didn't put my balls in a little jar and hand them to her to put on a shelf. So, she slowly starts tightening the noose around my throat. I'm drinking a lot, I left because I didn't want the fighting around Dillon (I named him) so I was just fighting demons, I was always mentally stable but I get him 8hrs a week visitation, wouldn't get that, all holidays was her choice on what time I got with him. Fathersday even. She even put a notice in the paper, fuck I forget what it's called, but a notice about a name change and had his last name changed to hers, but I remained on the birth certificate, so I'd still have to pay support for a kid I never got to see and didn't even have my last name. I couldn't even go get him from day care and wasn't permitted to go to school functions till he was old enough to say he wanted me there. He played roller hockey, in which they won the championship and he took MVP for defensive player of the season. I was the bad guy, always, I couldn't be around him much because I was a terrible person and had the audacity to not kiss her ass. He started getting into trouble and smoking pot at like 11 I think, which he got from her illeagle pot grow in her home, but the trouble was my fault, the pot wasn't mentioned, so I just quit talking to em, I was always dogged out. So I remove myself and wake up one day, friends gone, family turned on me lost. My job everything and it's been 20+ yrs of unreal shit, real dark time everything fails, I've been blacklisted at life, can't even get a piece of ass, every job I get I lose before I even start. Praying for death. That's a whole other story that is so fkn surreal and my life is still shit! So 15yrs goes by. And the brainwashing worked, the person I donated sperm to create hates me, I'm the evil one still and get this, w/in a few days of texting her I get a bill from child support demanding I pay like $15k for back child support lol wtf. They can suck a bag of dicks pay when I was demonized to my son and forced out of his life, fuck them... Sorry for the book I just wanted u to see you had an option and you made the right choice, you're giving her the gift of choice, being able to choose if she wants her dad around and it's for her benefit. I hope that he is a good dude. Not saying he wasn't, but the shit is scary as fk for a young guy to have to know what to do. So hope it all turns around and she, your kid have the support and love she needs to stand firm against the perils of this fkn POS world!! My ex made monsters. Robbed me and most importantly the right to choose for himself about his dad. And me, I'm a pissed off and bitter mother fucker and w all the other vomit introduced into my life, I hate it. 20+ yrs gone destroyed my dog was even poisoned, d she was my only friend. But that's another pile of regurgitated feces...
Sorry for the book!!!