How to deal with my son going through puberty as a single mother?

Now i am here , my older boy seems he finally is going through puberty and i don't know really how can i start talking to him and give him advices about this difficult stage of his life, i need to talk to him but i always at loss of words, i need every answer here

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Panamared · 70-79, M

He will be curious, open a line of conversation, be open and honest. Do not brush off any question, answer all of them so he will always come to you

salwa · F

@Panamared what if i can't answer all his questions, the psychological changes of boys in puberty i think it is different from us females so i can't fully understand many of psychological changes that boys can pass with, this is the problem

Panamared · 70-79, M

@salwa you can do it, if you do not understand the question, say so and talk it out

ninalanyon · 61-69, T

@salwa

what if i can't answer all his questions,

Admit that you don't know the answer and work together to find out. This will teach him that no one has all the answers and that working together is better than suffering in silence.

sstronaut

@salwa boys are simply, they get super duper horny horny and they're not used to it...

Then they learn about jacking off which leads to making a mess... and they just need to be able to control themselves and if they're struggling with that, then they need some sort of release, weather that's mental or physical, just make sure he's not being over stimulized and give him space, understand if the laundry gets dirtier quicker...