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Nicolina15 · 26-30, F
depends on how you hit
xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F
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Geminyoureye · F
why?
xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F
@Geminyoureye: Alright. I can't change your opinion but as you can see i did try my best to help. Just remember often times the child will raise their kids the way they were raised so she might grow up have kids and hit them to. Maybe even harder.
Geminyoureye · F
one girl said she would place me under citizens arrest
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@dunpender: I've never hit any child ever . It's not in me to do that . I try gentle persuasion or I simply tell him he's getting privledges taking away for however long I see fit . Children are just that ...children ...hitting them only teaches them it's ok to solves problems with violence. I prefer my son learn to use critical thinking to work out the problem . It takes patience, I'm not saying I'm perfect by any means but it's worth teaching your child other ways to solve problems rather then resorting to hitting .
xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F
@Chernobylplayground: ^^
@ Chernobylplayground:
Me too dear.
I was raised with corporal punishment.
Personally, I do NOT believe there is any need for it, and did not raise my child in the manner I was raised.
The outcome goes in two extremes, when this manner of *discipline* is ab/used /misused by the parent.
One: the child becomes a bully, or worse. And this insidious circle can continue...sadly.
Two: the child becomes victim of bullies and so their life can be scarred from an early age.
It can plummet them into depth of depression, self loathing and abusing illicit substances to numb out, even self harm.
Actually in both scenarios, they want to numb out
because in both scenarios, THEY ARE BEING ABUSED.
Me too dear.
I was raised with corporal punishment.
Personally, I do NOT believe there is any need for it, and did not raise my child in the manner I was raised.
The outcome goes in two extremes, when this manner of *discipline* is ab/used /misused by the parent.
One: the child becomes a bully, or worse. And this insidious circle can continue...sadly.
Two: the child becomes victim of bullies and so their life can be scarred from an early age.
It can plummet them into depth of depression, self loathing and abusing illicit substances to numb out, even self harm.
Actually in both scenarios, they want to numb out
because in both scenarios, THEY ARE BEING ABUSED.
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
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AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
Spanking once in a while is ok, but hitting as in punching, slapping, or pulling their hair is not
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I couldn't hit my child..but im not judging,you are the mom,i have no saying in how you raise your children 😐
romell · 51-55, M
you are the mother what u do with a clear conscience is good
@romell:
A sociopath has a clear conscience about murder, rape, etc, for example:
'conscience clarity' IS IRRELEVANT here.
A sociopath has a clear conscience about murder, rape, etc, for example:
'conscience clarity' IS IRRELEVANT here.
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
this one's for you social workers.
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tenente · 100+, M
your kid. your rules.