How to get my daughters ashes

Hi everyone i have been fighting for 8 yrs to get my daughters ashes and belongings from my ex boyfriends mother she kept saying she would send her to me or just attacking me in texts ive tried lawyers they all say they cant help me im totally at a loss and now ive found she has given one of my baby girls outfits away so i told her i want my daughter now but she said dont f with her and i need to shoo i just need to know what i must do im such a wreck with all this

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Gusman · 61-69, M

That is so sad.
I do not understand why lawyers are saying they can do nothing.
Ask the Funeral home for advice. There must have been written correspondence regarding who will take possession.
The person entitled to receive the ashes is the person who obtained the permit for the cremation.
Have you that documentation?

Why not appeal to your ex boyfriend?

chloemom84 · 36-40, F

@Gusman he wont talk to me and as for funeral home she was still born full term the county cremated her for me

Gusman · 61-69, M

@chloemom84 Then explain the situation and appeal to the county.
What a sad and strange state of affairs.
Ask them why that lady was given the ashes. Who made that legal decision.