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Custody battle help

Hi everyone , if anyone can give me advice I will be very detailed. My daughter whose 8 lives with her dad we have shared custody. Iv been in an abusive relationship for the 4 years as to why she ended up with her dad now. I have another child he stays with me and his dad in jail. Now my daughters dad is trying to have my daughter live with him , and I just get visitation but I want her to be in my care because I haven’t been with her in 4 years behind my toxic ex whose in jail. Now and has been in and out behind me. My daughters dad has told me he doesn’t want my daughter with me because I just can’t make the right decisions and that he feels I can’t be a mother to her because of my past , I had an abusive relationship with him as well so at that time I struggled but my daughter was living with me up until this abusive relationship of 4 years he told me he’s gonna get a layer so she can never live with me again. I haven’t been to court because I’m trying to move so my ex can’t find me when gets out of jail . I feel like I’m going to never have my daughter again even though I’m working hard with no help , he even said he doesn’t want my daughter on my care because I’m going to have her baby sit.. how the hell is that gonna be . I don’t do drugs or drink i I’m not unstable but I am worried he might have a strong case to keep my daughter from me . Mind you a year ago I called acs on him because he hit my daughter so hard in the mouth he busted her lip , he got away with it too because at this time I was in a shelter because my ex stalked me.. my ex even threatened my daughter and her dad , it’s a big mess . I just know I’m not dealing with my ex anymore and I’m nervous that it may take years to get my daughter back behind my past. I don’t know what to do I just miss my child so much
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Human1000 · M
I think you should get out of relationships with men most of all.