Why did my dad gets mad or fed up with me when I don’t stand up for myself?
It isn’t my fault that people called me names and push me around. They chose to pick on me and laugh at me. One of my male cousin who is a twin that uses to live with us yelled at me for something, disrespected and my late dad would get upset, get in my face and say, “Why do you let a man talk to you that way. You better quit being so weak. You’re being very WEAK right now!” He hissed.
I didn’t like how my dad called me “weak”. He never said that to me when I was a child. It’s like his words are harsher as I get older.
My older sister told me to stand up for myself or I will end up with an abusive man. She was very stern about it and looked me in the eye. One of my aunts got cranky at me and screamed at me to get my lazy ass up and help her when we were resting from taking in things and NOBODY stood up for me. My cousin and aunt just sat there and let it happen.
When the girls I used to play with made fun of me because I was the “odd” kid (I’m autistic) I would crying so many times and run away. My dad would send me back outside to talk to them. He would say, “Go talk to them! Go back. Either stand up for yourself or don’t come in.”
Harsh dad but I did and never spoke to those girls again. But anyways how was my fault that people disrespect me?
Parents why do you treat your child so harshly?
I didn’t like how my dad called me “weak”. He never said that to me when I was a child. It’s like his words are harsher as I get older.
My older sister told me to stand up for myself or I will end up with an abusive man. She was very stern about it and looked me in the eye. One of my aunts got cranky at me and screamed at me to get my lazy ass up and help her when we were resting from taking in things and NOBODY stood up for me. My cousin and aunt just sat there and let it happen.
When the girls I used to play with made fun of me because I was the “odd” kid (I’m autistic) I would crying so many times and run away. My dad would send me back outside to talk to them. He would say, “Go talk to them! Go back. Either stand up for yourself or don’t come in.”
Harsh dad but I did and never spoke to those girls again. But anyways how was my fault that people disrespect me?
Parents why do you treat your child so harshly?
22-25, F
