I know I usually post pervy stuff, but this time is somewhat serious I want others opinions on

My mother, who abandoned me some times after I was born, has recently tried to contact me again. Don't why or for what reason. I don't really care. I don't want to see or talk with her.

What would you do in this situation?

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TexChik · F

Regrets are forever. I realize you are bitter and rightly so, but part of you is still a hurt little girl that needs to meet with her mother and learn why her mother abandoned her. If you don't like what she has to say, get up and leave. But at least you will know, and you can close that chapter once and for all.

Jeephikelove · 46-50, F

@BrandyCream @TexChik is right, it’s not an easy decision but you may regret the opportunity for some explanation and/or closure. Fair you don’t care now, you might when you’re in your 40’s or so.
Hugs to you, I’m also an abandoned kid, really fucking sucks!

rfatoday · 61-69, M

@TexChik @BrandyCream IMO this is great advice. I don't have your experience of being abandoned but I know from personal experience resentments can be toxic to those who carry them. I would imagine you are bound to be resentful. As jeephikelove essentially said, you are in the driver's seat if you choose to meet with her. She may well have regrets herself. Nobody will know until she has her say. Good luck making the decision. I am sure we'll all will back you no matter what you decide. 😀