Guidance anyone?

According to my daughter, online articles are wrong
So
I’m asking here
What limits and rules would you put on your 16 year old daughter’s dating ?
( I think I’m going to loose all my hair and half of my remaining life expectancy by the time she is 21 😩)

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Haniazed

My 16 year old daughter has a BF who is 18. It’s been almost 6 months now. When she first told me, I told her I needed to meet him ASAP. Neither one of them has a car so it’s easy to keep track of them. They usually hang out at our house but he’s not welcomed unless one of us (parents) are home. And she’s not allowed to go to his house unless his mom is home. They’re allowed to hang out in the basement with the door open. They’re not allowed in her bedroom period. She’s definitely the boss in the relationship so I just have to trust that she does the right thing otherwise.

Niloo · 46-50, F

@Haniazed
Thanks Hani !
I think my biggest fight with her is the bedroom
I don’t want her in there either !

Haniazed

@Niloo no reason for them to be in there. Only time she’s allowed to bring him to her bedroom is if there are other friends with them.

Niloo · 46-50, F

@Haniazed
Exactly !

Haniazed

@Niloo and then always check in on them once in a while😂 I remember when I was 16…at my GF’s house even with her parents home, we were always making out and my hands were wondering😅

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@Haniazed That is smart man. Always remind the guy you have a shovel.