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This is a post for people who grew up with an easy childhood and think that everyone had it like them.

There are parents out there who will let their child’s uncle use them for sex. There are uncles out there who will let their friends use their niece/nephew for sex.

There are narcissists, sociopaths, psychopaths, and murderers who have children and treat them the same way they treat anyone else.

I can’t tell you the amount of times I’ve met people who think that all parents are the way they think their parents were, and just sort of go quiet when I tell them about this sort of thing.

Yes: children are neglected. Children are unloved. Children are beaten. Children are raped. Children are traumatized throughout their entire childhood, and the people who did these horrible things to them just fucking get away with it because naive people who think these things don’t happen, don’t report it. They think, “Oh, that’s such a rare occurrence that surely someone else will report it.” Meanwhile, everyone else who witnesses it, thinks the same thing.

And so children are neglected and abused and their abusers never face repercussions. It’s far more common than many people think.
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I am lucky enough to have a very good mother who always supported me. I was a very shy kid and I got picked on a whole lot in school which was the cause of most of my loneliness and confidence issues as a kid, but not because of anything bad at home. But my mother treated me good because she herself did not have a good childhood, she had a very abusive alcoholic father and also got raped as a teenager. She didn’t want to believe in the sentiment that kids who are abused always grow up to be abusers themselves, and she wanted me to have it better than she did. I am very thankful for that and I know I am also very lucky.
We grew up in poor neighborhoods mostly, and my mom was pretty much the only one of the parents around who really cared sadly. Most of the other parents didn’t really care about their kids, they let them run the streets and get into trouble and get hurt and do whatever they wanted as long as they stayed out of the parents’ hair.
@SW-User I’m glad at least you had a hood childhood.
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@SinlessOnslaught I wouldn’t call being the laughing stock of the school and getting picked on every day a “good” childhood necessarily, but I know it was better than a lot of others had it. I never had trust issues or felt unsafe in my own home. I despise the parents out there who do those kinds of things or let things like that happen to their own children. I have a son and I couldn’t even imagine letting something terrible like that happen to him.
@SW-User I see. I’m sorry.
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@SinlessOnslaught Thanks, but I guess it helped make me stronger in the long run, taught me that I can get laughed at and pushed around by everyone around me and still get back up and keep on trucking. I went to college and have a successful career now. My 20s and early 30s were full of a lot of anxiety and short temperedness, but I learned to control my emotions better as I got older.
The ones who couldn’t trust their own family had it much worse than me still. I am sorry for what they had to go through.