Guys, did you feel pressured to have kids?

Either from parents/siblings or partner? How did you manage it?

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Yep.
Never really wanted children precisely because i knew how hard it is to BE one !

But. Thirty years on, i'm glad i have them in my life.

naturefarmer · 41-45, M

@Picklebobble2 I am glad it all worked out in the end, although it is a tough one.

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

@naturefarmer You watch them go through so many struggles. Make their mistakes. See the pain it causes and question whether it's fair that they should have to.
And of course,whether they blame you for their existence on occasion.