Guys, did you feel pressured to have kids?

Either from parents/siblings or partner? How did you manage it?

SW-User

A little, though it was never serious. I have a kid now, so it's not really an issue. I'm engaged and we were going to get married this year but with all the crap going on that may be moved to next year.

naturefarmer · 41-45, M

@SW-User I see, was it from her? and good luck.

SW-User

@naturefarmer Nah, it was from my parents, mainly my mom since I’m an only child.

And thanks. :)

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

Yep.
Never really wanted children precisely because i knew how hard it is to BE one !

But. Thirty years on, i'm glad i have them in my life.

naturefarmer · 41-45, M

@Picklebobble2 I am glad it all worked out in the end, although it is a tough one.

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

@naturefarmer You watch them go through so many struggles. Make their mistakes. See the pain it causes and question whether it's fair that they should have to.
And of course,whether they blame you for their existence on occasion.

SmileSunshine · 31-35, F

This is a really good question...I’m interested to see the feedback because I think I make my other half feel that way. :/

toddr13 · 46-50, M

Yes, ended up not getting married.

naturefarmer · 41-45, M

@toddr13 oh, she must have been pissed..

toddr13 · 46-50, M

@naturefarmer It's complicated. We've almost gotten married twice.

naturefarmer · 41-45, M

@toddr13 Are you guys still together?

Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M

Yes. I had two. Don’t get married if you don’t want them.

naturefarmer · 41-45, M

@Fukfacewillie who pressured you?

Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M

Not pressure..just life...@naturefarmer

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