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What to do with him....

He's started getting lazy.... My boyfriend has stopped going shopping and is now just going to the corner shop to do one day's shopping.
He's only been doing half days workthis week but if off weekends.
I'm 39 weeks pregnant and I'm going in for a Csection one Monday. How am I supposed to do all this and look after my young daughter at same time
BlueVeins · 22-25
I don't know what you should do, but good luck. Sounds like he's really shut down.
MiraRoss · 26-30, F
@BlueVeins we've had a lot of arguments this year with him being lazy thought many times to leave him but he said he'd change. He's in bed right now instead of thinking of shopping
smiler2012 · 56-60, M
@MiraRoss does he manage to get all you want from the corner shop if not he needs to start to realise his responsibilities and you are the main priority and do not need his actions stressing you out
MiraRoss · 26-30, F
@smiler2012 nope not all the time. We been eating same crap everyday. We not even had any fruit for ages
SW-User
You should give him a list for shopping for month or atleast a week. So he can bring it. He is being lazy because he thinks he is on vacation. Make him feel that he needs to improve his life and do the dishes lol
SW-User
@MiraRoss what does he do on the computer all day? Make his to do list consisting of healthy habits.
MiraRoss · 26-30, F
@SW-User bit of work and watch YouTube about old computers
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Nyloncapes · 56-60, M
Get his lazy arse out of bed tell him to grow up and take responsibility man up
MiraRoss · 26-30, F
@Nyloncapes I've told him once before and he did and now he's getting lazy again
sassypants · 31-35, F
He sounds immature and if the responsibility of having a baby to take care of doesn't motivate him, I don't know what will. I imagine that his whole life he has had someone take care of him. Best wishes for you and your baby.
MiraRoss · 26-30, F
@sassypants this is our second. He knows what needs to be done he just decides what he wants to do and not
sassypants · 31-35, F
@MiraRoss I'm so sorry and at 39 weeks you must be pulling your hair out.
MiraRoss · 26-30, F
@sassypants I try be strong for the kids
SW-User
He needs to step it up !
MiraRoss · 26-30, F
@SW-User yep
SW-User
@MiraRoss girllll, you tell him to step it up ..
MiraRoss · 26-30, F
@SW-User I have once before well twice really and he got so much better, he's just staring to get lazy again
Zonuss · 41-45, M
Ask him. Tell him what needs to be done.

 
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