This is two questions about family. First have you ever been verbally attacked by multiple...

lizisbizzy · 22-25, F

Yes and with my dad I'd ignore him but it went to a point where he thought it was okay to belittle me in such a way that I started standing up for myself, if that makes sense.

Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F

Oh no, that’s not good at all. He’s hurting himself and others by drinking, his health must be pretty bad...

lizisbizzy · 22-25, F

@Itsjustbrit eh

Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F

I truly hope he gets better and stops hurting you.

Henal · 26-30, F

Yes very often. I tried to stand up for myself, but didn't really work well in my favour, so I learnt to ignore it

Henal · 26-30, F

@Itsjustbrit Thank you ☺️ You are very sweet 🤗

Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F

Aw thank you so much, I try my best not to hurt anyone because I’m sensitive and know how it feels. I wish I was stronger but it’s not that easy.

Henal · 26-30, F

@Itsjustbrit To me, you seem just as strong ☺️

boklenholley7 · F

Yes. I ignored it at first. After awhile I got fed up with it and stood up for myself.

Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F

That’s true, I truly love your positivity. You are a inspiration to me ♥️

boklenholley7 · F

@Itsjustbrit thanks. You can message me if you ever need to talk!

Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F

Oh I would love that! I’ll add you! After I reply to all everyone's answers I’m gonna take a nap. The rain makes me sleepy.

TheunderdogofNY · 36-40, M

They try. But I'll drop them like a bad habit. I get my own money and do my own thing. So there is little they can tell me. I'll just ignore them if I can and just peace out if I cannot.

Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F

Wow, you are truly amazing and I’m so proud of you, you should always do what makes you happy! @TheunderdogofNY

soulsrespite · F

yes, and i have tried my best to stand up to them. it’s not easy tbh. especially when it’s your own parents and siblings

Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F

That really sucks, I’m so sorry. I bet you are amazing and no one deserves to be attacked in any way!@soulsrespite

SheCallsMeCrushDaddy · M

a few times, but it was deserved. if i am in the right, which i usually am LOL, i will stand up and fight though.

Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F

Yeah! That’s awesome! @SheCallsMeCrushDaddy

SW-User

Yes.
Used to fight back. No use. Now I just ignore them as much as possible.

Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F

I’m sorry you had to went through that, I wish I could’ve stand up for you. @SW-User

GallantlyChurlish · 46-50, M

Mine aren’t bold enough for confrontation. They prefer conspiring.

Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F

Oh that doesn’t sound good either...@GallantlyChurlish

PhoenixPhail · M

I HAVE been verbally attacked by multiple family members, and I just froze. Standing up for myself was WAY too dangerous. It would have brought on more attack. And ignoring them, was impossible. It was all just too painful.

Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F

I’m sorry you have gone through that@Psycho

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Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F

Yeah I believe that too, but I hope it stops us from repeating history because we know how it feels.