How can you be so selfish even to your own daughter? 💔💙😓

I know@charley . Because we are mothers! The only choice if we are depressed is to fight to survive, for our children. The only choice is to go back “up” for them. 💙

I am so sorry to hear this. That’s why it is not bad to seek a professional , rather than turning into drugs and other vices. I went through it myself from my miscarriage. I am still here standing, because I care more of my child. I seek help from people who can help me. @charley]

Yes, he went hysterical and cried as I don’t want to move back there again. In the last 10 years we kept on moving back there for like 6 times already because he gets bored living in the same place. I don’t want to move as I feel sorry for my daughter, having to move schools all the time because his dad wanted us to. He thinks that by moving all the time, it can make him happy. So I said,he needs to get well, this time, it will be without me and my daughter.@LyricalOne So sad, but I can’t cope anymore. We need peace.

@Bittersweet84 It’s a very difficult situation but it sounds like you’re doing exactly the right thing for yourself and your daughter. Hopefully your decision to separate will be the impetus for him to seek help but regardless, you must do what you have to as a mother. I wish you all the very best.

Thank you@LyricalOne . I hope that he could his life sorted. So that we can all get on with our lives.

That's the case with my father.

I know, but if I try to help my husband a suggest a professional help, he goes mental at me.@ItsGonnaBeOk

@Bittersweet84 give him the love he wants I guess, and then maybe have a clear talk with him

It’s heartbreaking. 💔@lancetroy

@Bittersweet84 yeah I've been through it and seen others go through it

I know. 😓@lancetroy

Apparently, it’s not a drama. He is depressed.Even if it’s nasty to think he is selfish, but he could put his self back up. For the sake of his own daughter.@SW-User