I Want To Talk About Parenting

The most recent issue I have with my 11 year old daughter is that she is wanting a smartphone, like some of the kids she knows. Personally, I do not understand why they need one at that age. Who do they need to call? If they want to meet up with friends, I can make those arrangements. Some parents say it is good so you can always reach them, but I do not see it as necessary. 20 years ago kids were fine without them. However, I am doubting at what age I should allow her a phone.

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DancingQueensie · 46-50, F

I'd tell her to start doing a LOT more work around the house and you get a small flip phone that I get to check every day when I want. Then she can call and text but that's it. No internet, no apps just talk and text and you have the right to check it when you want and she doesn't take it to school, keep it after say 7 at night and she will do chores to pay for the phone period. My 13 year old decided she needed one so she does a TON of housework and doesn't get to use it that often because she's in the terrible teens. You know when they think they know it all.

KimberleyAnne · F

@DancingQueensie i think that's a bit too strict. Everyone has a smartphone these days, and if youre concerned to protect her just install parental control software on her phone - thats what my parents did for me