I Want To Talk About Parenting

The most recent issue I have with my 11 year old daughter is that she is wanting a smartphone, like some of the kids she knows. Personally, I do not understand why they need one at that age. Who do they need to call? If they want to meet up with friends, I can make those arrangements. Some parents say it is good so you can always reach them, but I do not see it as necessary. 20 years ago kids were fine without them. However, I am doubting at what age I should allow her a phone.

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lasergraph · 70-79, M

Children seek validation from others, especially girls. It isn't a new phenomenon, it has been since the beginning of time.
xixgun has some good advice and I will second those suggestions. Since she and others seek validations she is a prime target for predators. If you get any kind of phone for her, monitor it closely. It there are numbers that show up on it, make sure you know who they belong to. I personally think we have become too attached to our devices at ANY age. We don't go and do anything anymore.