How do you cope knowing someone you love is dying?

Bloody hell. I'm so sorry! I'd give you a great big hug if I could. I've been there. How to cope. Love them and be there with them. My initial reaction was to, and I know its going to sound cold, but it was to avoid them. I couldn't take it, the pain, their presence. And I regret it, not spending all the time I could with them because I was scared. And then when she passed instead of grieving I tried to go on with life as normal and I broke into a million pieces. so all I can advise is to love them, be there with them and prepare yourself to grieve.

Yes cancer sucks so I coped with it by dedicating a year to finding a cure for cancer and I found it so now the people I love don't have to die early from anything abnormal (stage 4 cancers, inoperable tumors, AIDS, STDs, depression, mental disorders ect)

There is no way. Just take it day by day and do what you can. It’s terrible and nothing will make it easier. Do one day at a time. Yes cancer is terrible. Try and do something nice for them on a better day. I spent a whole day by my mother’s side playing her favourite music for her. She smiled a little.

It's really tough I am so sorry you are going through that. I lost someone over a year ago to lung cancer. The best thing you can do is allow yourself to feel all the emotions that come. It's okay to be angry, sad, etc.

[media=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eGQFAyzMWNg]
2 minute video of Doctors research into cannabis oil (Rick Simpson oil) soon you will see that it cures most forms of cancers and tumors (I think in another decade)

I apologize for my rant on your post. I just cannot stand someone telling people they can cure cancer. Don’t they think StJude children research hospital would be curing babies and young children of cancer if it were that easy. One in five of those children die. Chemotherapy saves the rest.

I know. My father died a month ago. I cried many nights and days straight

I watched my sister die a horrible death stage 4 when they found it. Nothing they could do for her give her pain medicine.

Because you have no choice