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Is it wrong for a male to take dancing lessons?

My three year old son loves dancing so I have him enrolled in ballet and tap dancing. He really loves it, but my parents react negatively to it. (I am currently living with them)

If I am working overtime and I ask them to please pick him up from his dancing lessons or drop him off, they always react negatively by saying 'boys don't dance'

Currently, our music in my country is very popular with the dancing and even males do it.

So it is wrong for a male child to take ballet and tap dancing? He's currently the only boy in the small class.
He enjoys it, but he's starting to hate it because his grandparents are being negative about it and thinks they don't like him because he wants to dance.
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SW-User
If he loves it, let him enjoy it
Rain95 · 26-30, M
@SW-User Alright I'll try it. I still take him to the lessons though. I guess they're worried he'll come out gay because recently my older brother came out homosexual
Rain95 · 26-30, M
@Elizabeth28 I will try to do it in a nice way. xD
@Rain95 mmmhmm
Effloresce · 26-30, F
Of course it’s not wrong for males to dance. People just like to hate on other people’s passions. If your son enjoys it I don’t see any reason for him to stop anytime soon
Rain95 · 26-30, M
@Effloresce But my son is starting to notice the negativity it brings and he's starting not want to go anymore.
@Rain95 tel em to shut up and let him dance they can
... offf
Effloresce · 26-30, F
@Rain95 Negativity is an inescapable part of life, although it’s unfortunate he’s experiencing it from his grandparents. He’s young, but you should encourage him to not care what others think, especially if he enjoys it so much
Robby50 · 70-79, M
If he loves to dance, let him dance. I began taking dance lessons when I was four with my next door neighbor. I never became a great dancer but I loved to dance.
Rain95 · 26-30, M
@Robby50 Thank you!
YoMomma ·
Cute. And no its not wrong. Males can also dance. :) its nice when someone has something good in their life that they enjoy
Rain95 · 26-30, M
@YoMomma Thank you but my parents think it's wrong.
YoMomma ·
@Rain95 parents are wrong sometimes 😄
SW-User
It'll make his core and back very strong
Rain95 · 26-30, M
@SW-User I agree and he's playing soccer on a local team currently.
SW-User
he's a adorable looking child lol
Rain95 · 26-30, M
@SW-User THanks!
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Rain95 · 26-30, M
@Fishing65 He does, but he doesn't like the negativity it brings because his grandparents are negative about it.
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Rain95 · 26-30, M
@Fishing65 I try to, but they still say it's wrong and I am indoctrinating him.
malizz · 70-79, M
Shouldn't be a problem.
jimjim1969 · M
Not at all, if he likes it.
Gangstress · 41-45, F
Good god don't post your child's pic here 😦
SW-User
He's a very cute kid and it looks like he's enjoying it. Just let him be.
Oldfashionedcouple · 41-45, C
Let him enjoy what he want to do. He is a cute boy
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Its a pickle. I hope they wizen up before they spoil it for him.
Rain95 · 26-30, M
@Thevy29 The negativity is starting to affect him though.
SW-User
You are the same korean/japanese wannabe troll who keeps fabricating random stories. Now you'll reply "what?" and block me like every time I call you out. Lol.
Rain95 · 26-30, M
@SW-User What are you talking about a troll?
Prisoner69 · 26-30, M
Ballet is not wrong but surrounding him with women is not good for growth
Rain95 · 26-30, M
@Prisoner69 He does do soccer on the local soccer team with boys his age. He likes being the only boy in the class though xD
Prisoner69 · 26-30, M
@Rain95 then continue by all means
nedkelly · 61-69, M
Remember Billy Elliot - overcame his hard arse dad and brother
Rain95 · 26-30, M
@nedkelly I don't know who he is, but I'll tell them that!
nedkelly · 61-69, M
@Rain95 [media=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CHt2us5ULA0]
Rain95 · 26-30, M
Oh I think I recognize the movie. I"ll show them this movie to my grandparents
Deadcutie · 18-21, F
Yes, your turning him gay... stop it now

 
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