How can I help my sister ?

My sister is having a baby girl in August she's really scared. She's too young to be having a baby she's 18 19 next month. She's still a kid herself. She's worried her daughter might not have a father she and him keep having problems they have an on and off relationship he's too old for her. He's old enough to be her dad. She's worried she'll be alone. Also she has a huge fear of hospitals she can't stand needles she freaks out if she gets a shot she doesn't want an IV stuck in her she hates them more. How can I help her ?

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GlitterBug · 22-25, F

Encouragement. If you really want to go the extra mile for her you can offer to help her with the child when she needs the help. As for needles and hospitals, lot of people are going for at home births, don’t think there’s many needles if any but the pain is worse without an epidural. On a side note if she has the baby in a hospital and gets the epidural do not let her see the needle she’d probably freak out, it’s huge and goes right in your spine.