If you and your spouse separated, would you tell your kid it's their fault?

So my parent separated a few months back and well I was straight up told it was because of me. Honestly being told that has just really messed me up. Like am I the only that thinks it's messed up that I would be told that seriously?

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Exhibiter100000 · 61-69, M

That’s not right. It’s not your fault. Your parents just couldn’t get along. We separated but have no kids. I say don’t bring kids into the separation. They have enough to deal with just knowing their parents are separated.