I am almost 36 weeks pregnant and I am still not getting over not wanting others to hold the baby when she gets here.

As my due date is getting closer and closer I am still not getting over this thing of not wanting others to hold my baby. The thought of others holsing the baby is freaking me out and making me feel uncomfortable. Its just for the first couple of weeks.Despite of being close with my family in law. Am i crazy?

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pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M

We have dogs... What you have to know about the dogs is that they truly adore and LOVE me - it happens to be mutual....Well when our Female gave birth last time to a single puppy... and her mate woke me up to tell me - very exited Dad... I saw her single male pup for the first time curled up at her side happily nursing and she looked at me and growled softly - but she meant it... He is MINE - don't come any closer please... it did not take too long for her to allow me to pick him up and say hello but her first instincts were that NO one is going any where near her baby...

So you ask are you crazy?

No... it is normal and not to feel as you do would be crazy...

You know we think we are so much smarter because we can reason - but it is not true - we have to recognize who we are and what we are to understand how we feel about things...

WildwoodFlower · 31-35, F

@pdqsailor1 thanks for your comment. Helps alot