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Should I stay or should I go?

We are both in our early 30’s
I make decent money. He makes $10 an hour. He needs to go back to school and in my opinion he hasn’t been motivated enough to change anything and it’s taking him way to long to figure out what he wants to do. He wants to get me pregnant... I don’t want to have a kid and be the one responsible for everything on my own- financially and most likely doing most work... and he is supposed to be gone for 1-2 years to go to school. I’m so tired of it all. He wont clean anything unless I tell him to do it. It’s like having a teenager, not a partner. I’m tired of having a husband who can’t get his shit together and who I have to take care of financially. I can do so much better.
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I'm sure your post is from frustration and I completely understand where you're coming from.
I hope that whatever you chose will be something that will find you peace and success.
Having kids should be the last thing on his priority list. If he's still not house broken, I hate to say it, you will be chasing him for years with the laundry hamper and he won't change.
Having kids is a life long commitment and if he's not right in his life right now, (being that he needs to finish school etc) then maybe that's what his focus should be.

Maybe take a break ?? Go your own way and see what life changes he makes before going on w him??

You've gotta look out for yourself