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I'm a father and I want opinions on when you would allow your teenage daughter to wear thongs or g strings?

I know its a strange question but as my daughter ages I cringe as I see girls older than her and what they wear and my GF has a daughter that wears them.
TexChik · F
Thongs and g strings don’t belong on children
oodlesofnoodles · 51-55, M
@TexChik exactly
SW-User
When she can buy her own.
oodlesofnoodles · 51-55, M
@SW-User good answer
SW-User
That's her decision
oodlesofnoodles · 51-55, M
@SW-User true, but her mother and I don't have to buy them.
SW-User
Not trying to be weird or anything, but they are actually very comfortable. It's not unusual for someone to think they are sexy or uncomfortable. But there is also the comfort factor, since they aren't uncomfortable at all. They're easier to carry around too, many benefits to them, not just used for in the bedroom. They were originally made to hide the lines regular underwear makes on some jeans or other clothing(at least I believe, you can look it up.)
oodlesofnoodles · 51-55, M
@SW-User I can appreciate your opinion, however I know women who think the opposite that they are not comfortable at all.
SW-User
@oodlesofnoodles Sure there are those people, maybe it's just me, but they are comfortable once you get used to them. And chances are your daughter might find them uncomfortable and never want them again.
I always figured a lot of people wear them, no one has to know I wear them either(No one can tell). I'm not sure how old your daughter is, but she might be more interested in them eventually. Some people do consider it to be something you only wear in the bedroom, but I do believe wearing them under your clothes can still make you feel good about yourself(pretty, attractive, whatever) even if it's just yourself looking at them. Hard to really explain, but that's the reason why my parent's never minded me having them at all. No one is looking at me in them, only myself.

At the end of the day they are only underwear.
EDIT: It's better to feel you look attractive by yourself instead of going to someone else for approval.
oodlesofnoodles · 51-55, M
@SW-User very well said, thank you for answering.
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
I wouldnt want my daughter wearing sexy underwear. I know why they wear them.
oodlesofnoodles · 51-55, M
@NeuroticByNature I don't think that applies in all girls but you make a valid point
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
@oodlesofnoodles youre right it doesnt but at the same time theres no need to encourage the sexualizing of teen girls.
oodlesofnoodles · 51-55, M
@NeuroticByNature I agree wholeheartedly
When she's out of the house and buying her own shit
oodlesofnoodles · 51-55, M
@Notmesam part of me definitely agrees
katielass · F
I'd be more concerned about whether or not anyone else is seeing them.
oodlesofnoodles · 51-55, M
@katielass for sure but I do know she doesn't have any this was a question to guage opinions.
katielass · F
@oodlesofnoodles Ok but should it ever be an issue remember to pick your battles.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
What difference does it make?
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
@oodlesofnoodles Sex happens no matter what underwear she’s wearing.
oodlesofnoodles · 51-55, M
@MrBrownstone for sure but why sexualize teen girls?
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
@oodlesofnoodles Who sees her underwear?
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
As a father that's your decision.
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
So you know her choice in underwear how?
oodlesofnoodles · 51-55, M
@oodlesofnoodles if you bothered to read my entire question and comments you would see that this wasn't creepy just a concern for my daughter and to get opinions. even at your age parents would know what their children were wearing as they were the ones buying until they made their own money. don't read into this something that isn't there. It was a social comment on not sexualizing our teen daughters.
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
@oodlesofnoodles If you say so.
oodlesofnoodles · 51-55, M
@hippyjoe1955 I truly believe you are a creep and a troll. get a life.
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oodlesofnoodles · 51-55, M
@GreensCornbreadYams you have no clue on my situation, that was inappropriate.
SW-User
they arent allowed in schools
oodlesofnoodles · 51-55, M
@SW-User depends on the school, she does not go to a catholic school.
SW-User
@oodlesofnoodles im talking about public schools. i imagine private schools are even tougher on that. reagedless, its your decision and hers
oodlesofnoodles · 51-55, M
as far as I know, public schools do not monitor underwear.
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there is no real point in stopping her from doing what wont hurt her .. thats my view
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It's a no-brainer. Do I need to explain which way I go on that?
oodlesofnoodles · 51-55, M
@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP please read the responses I got on this, I'm sure I responded in a way any true father would have.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
If she spending her own money on it, plus they really should not be visible that's trashy
oodlesofnoodles · 51-55, M
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit exactly, they should be for herself not anyone else.

 
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