Is it okay for a man to leave state while his baby is on the way?

@Curiousguy833 Yeah, I've had alleged heart-to-hearts with him. He knew how scared I was when he left... But unfortunately it's all about him still. Which means it's better that he's left, considering the kind of person he would be to our child in that case. It's just a tough situation to accept at this point.

I know, but if you think you did the best that you would then there is nothing more anyone can ask from you.

You just need to tale a breath and take things one day at a time and look forward. Make you have some sort of support system (a friend or family that you have there with you)

But remember that day that you tried to talk to him and give him a chance. Remember how you felt because in the future when you are doing better he will most likely come back and want to be part of your life in some way. Remember that deadbeats will always be deadbeats!

Absolutely.

@CrustyDDingus Unless he has no choice I suppose

@NaturalBeautyQueen Is it alright to shoot you a message?

@Glothic certainly

@Bleedingheart11 To be putting himself first, I probably should have elaborated that, that meant to focus on him, he had a choice, etc...

@Glothic in that case, it is irresponsible of him. His life is no longer about him alone. It's now about his child as well as his child's mother. I really hope he gets his stuff figured out and starts to focus on his new family.

@Bleedingheart11 Those are my thoughts as well... you cannot be selfish anymore.. if not the baby's mom, then for your child because that IS an obligation forever..

@Flenflyys The time frame was never set in stone.

@SStarfish Sadly.

@IstillmissEP Thank you for just being that kind of person honestly.

@Glothic seems a little strange for sure. Possibly just freaking out over the responsibility that is coming his way. Very selfish for sure, but I would say more a sign of immaturity, thus wouldn't condemn him for it.

@Bubbles Undoubtedly.

@Bubbles Though, the mother doesn't get that luxury.. having a kicking, stretching baby inside of you that you'll have to endure excruciating pain to get out, is much scarier than just being there and taking part of the responsibility of baby. Baby is the new obligation.. and if you do not view them as a priority at this time, you probably never will because that's just demeanor.

@bijouxbroussard Yeah, that's completely understandable though.