Every family has the good kid and the troublesome kid. Who created the trouble in your family and why?
In mine, it's my sister. She gets into these loud verbal arguments with the parents. I just watched the commotion mostly.
26-30, F
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sogdianrock · 61-69, M
hi Heretodaygonetomor
I disagree. Every family has a dynamic within which people play roles - like theatre. Roles can be good or bad but not people. There is an escape from acting out and it requires democracy.
Best wishes
:)
I disagree. Every family has a dynamic within which people play roles - like theatre. Roles can be good or bad but not people. There is an escape from acting out and it requires democracy.
Best wishes
:)
Heretodaygonetomorrow · 26-30, F
@sogdianrock I do agree with you. I don't mean my sister is a bad person. She us much better than me at everything. And I live her and we are super close.
But yeah, she has a hot temper which gets her in trouble. And an opinionated mind, which does not like being silenced.
I am quite the opposite. And my role in these situations is that of the peacemaker. All the time.
But yeah, she has a hot temper which gets her in trouble. And an opinionated mind, which does not like being silenced.
I am quite the opposite. And my role in these situations is that of the peacemaker. All the time.
sogdianrock · 61-69, M
hiHeretodayginetiomorrow
beware roles. They limit and define. Most importantly in your own mind. You are full of potential. You are not the opposite of your sister but you are being trained by your family to be so. You are young enough to overcome this programming. Do not be your sister be yourself but exercise your opinion.
Best wishes
:)
beware roles. They limit and define. Most importantly in your own mind. You are full of potential. You are not the opposite of your sister but you are being trained by your family to be so. You are young enough to overcome this programming. Do not be your sister be yourself but exercise your opinion.
Best wishes
:)