At what age would you allow your daughter to wear heels?

My oldest is 14 and has been bugging me recently to pick her up some high heels for her to wear out with her friends this fall. When I asked her why she wants them she says she is a high school girl now and wants to look more mature and adult like. I told her I'd think about it. What does everyone think?

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Pop0159 · 61-69, M

I would have a long conversation about why, what it means to her, you, others, boys, .. .. focus on what she wants to say about herself and what others may take it to mean .. .. .. I would then let her start to wear them at appropriate responsible times .. .. ..