I hate being an orphan! 😭😭😭😭😭
Both my parents are dead and I can’t believe I would lose them so soon. I’m only 19. I feel like my family isn’t allowing me to grieve because they think I’ve been depressed long enough since my mother abandoned me when I was 7.
My mom died last year because of a bad seizure and my dad died from stomach cancer. Why do people in my family give me a hard time and unsupportive about grieving over my absence mother but supported me about my dads death? My dads girlfriend is still struggling to accept it. She’s been brutally blunt with me about his death and said, “I told you that your daddy wasn’t going to be around forever. You can’t depend on him anymore or your mother. You’re a grown young lady and it’s time to be dependent on yourself. That’s why your dad was pushing you to be independent. I know it’s hard but he’s gone and theirs nothing you do about it. Same with your mother. Yes it’s sounds BLUNT but it’s the truth. You’re not the only one that’s going through this.”
My mom died last year because of a bad seizure and my dad died from stomach cancer. Why do people in my family give me a hard time and unsupportive about grieving over my absence mother but supported me about my dads death? My dads girlfriend is still struggling to accept it. She’s been brutally blunt with me about his death and said, “I told you that your daddy wasn’t going to be around forever. You can’t depend on him anymore or your mother. You’re a grown young lady and it’s time to be dependent on yourself. That’s why your dad was pushing you to be independent. I know it’s hard but he’s gone and theirs nothing you do about it. Same with your mother. Yes it’s sounds BLUNT but it’s the truth. You’re not the only one that’s going through this.”
22-25, F
