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I visited my best friend this weekend…

At one point my friend’s son showed me a photo that he took one of the times when they and her mother had driven down to visit me at my parents’ house. In the picture, me, my best friend and our mothers were sitting together, and we were all laughing, probably at a joke her mother had told. The picture was framed and on a shelf.

For those who don’t know, I lost my mother last year, and my friend lost her mother the very next month, so we’ve been leaning on each other while navigating this journey.

My friend was looking at the photograph, and she, who never breaks down, began to cry. Her son and I rushed over to her and held her.
Eventually she shooed us away and wiped her eyes (and I wiped mine). "This is just so hard, " she said. 😞
bookerdana · M
It may sound strange but there are not many photos of my Mom and Dad but the memories are there,the all weekend barbecues where anyone who wandered in took a plate..the brother coming home from Uni and being picked up by his buddy (who was my Moms 9th fourth son)

I remember my aunt talking to me about how even if she could spend one day with her mother (my grandmother ) she would refuse it because the end would be so painful.That was twenty years after my grand mothers death
I dream of them all frequently and I only know we will meet again and until than there are the memories
Losing a beloved mother is one of life’s most agonizing experiences. And those waves of grief can hit at any time and knock you right off your feet. Just glad you and your best friend have each other as you walk this painful path together. 🫂
Secretsmile · 51-55, F
I am so sorry for your loss of your mother. I lost mine in 2006and it’s still fresh. I’m sure the pictures help you feel better 💐
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
And it’s an emptiness that no one can fill🙏🌹
SW-User
Can be so hard and difficult. The needs of another feeling grief can also be so very different from yours, while remarkably so close to the same. I hope the cry came with meaning and closeness.
Lostpoet · M
Im sorry for your loss
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
This made my heartache. I'm so sorry BB, to both of you. The support you two can offer each other will really help in this difficult time. ♥❤ Look after yourself x
@Mellowgirl Thank you. 🙏🏽
Blondily · F
My deepest condolences to you and your friend. 💐 A sad story but beautiful too. I'm glad you and your best friend have each other. The loss of one's mother is devastating.
Yeah it is hard. I miss my folks every single day.
@CrystalSkull My condolences. 🥺
@bijouxbroussard and to you.❤
Gangstress · 41-45, F
Im glad you are both leaning on each other x
Lots of love to you all ❣
@Gangstress Thank you. 🙏🏽
Bang5luts · M
I am so very sorry for your loss, both of you.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I am really sorry. I am glad that you can be there for each other 🩷.

 
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