5 Year Anniversary It was 5 years ago today when my mother passed… a good 15 (or more) years...

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It was 5 years ago today when my mother passed… a good 15 (or more) years past when the doctors predicted. I still miss her, but there was also some unresolved trauma l, some baggage, leftover from childhood. I should have brought it up and gotten...

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Beth9911 · 41-45, F

I have the same unresolved issues with my dad. Anniversaries are tough on those like me who can dwell on these 'what could have been' kinda moments. Let's keep fighting pessimism and stay as positive as we can. Sending hugs 🙂

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

I have learnt after many years for forgive my mother. I think she did the best that she could at the time and was imperfect as I am. Why did I hold her to a higher standard?

NewRaven · 51-55, F

@JimboSaturn not really holding her to a higher standard, more a lingering question of why.

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@NewRaven No that was just me holding my mother to a higher standard.

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I just lost mine this year and my dad last year. I'm thinking the holidays this year will feel very strange. We had a love/hate relationship, and I both miss them and feel relieved in probably equal measure.

NewRaven · 51-55, F

@SW-User I totally understand that equal measure concept.

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@NewRaven Yes, it's a strange mix of grief and freedom from abuse. They were lovely people in many ways, but there's no getting around the fact that Mum was a narcissist and Dad enabled her.