Mum - I don't know what to do 😟😟

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God really needs to give me strength. Mum is at work at the moment. My aunt calls me to say my uncle is gone very very bad and it's not looking good at all. An ambulance was called and they took him to the hospital. He was stabilized and sent back home. But the doctor said that he does not have much time left.

Everyone has contacted me and told me that I have to break the news to mum cos they not strong enough to do it, since she is usually the strong one. So they haven't told her anything yet. I literally have my heart in my hand cos I have no idea what to do and how to break the news to her.

Makes me feel that much more guilty for what I did. I'm so confused 😟😟😟😟

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GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

Just tell her the information you have been given as quickly as possible. If everyone else has the bad news it isn’t right to keep it from her

SilentKiller · M

@GJOFJ3 very true. She'll be home soon. By 2 hours. So I have to muster the courage to tell her. There's no way I can do it over the phone.

Its worse cos after the incident. But I have to do it.

smiler2012 · 56-60

it is a bit unfair this put on you it should be an older family member that takes the responsibility on telling your auntie the sad news [silentkiller]

SilentKiller · M

@smiler2012 i had to tell mum the news. So it wasn't the best or the easiest but I had to do it

Dacrowman · 70-79, M

Twice you have mentioned an incident is it something you care to share
Btw your mum looks lovely

SilentKiller · M

@Dacrowman hi there
Thank you. U may read the previous post 😊

trackboy · 22-25, M

the doctors are not going to do anything for him??

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trackboy · 22-25, M

@SilentKiller there are heart meds. oxygen. IV. lots of other things.

SilentKiller · M

@trackboy he is on oxygen at the moment.

trackboy · 22-25, M

@SilentKiller any meds that can help??

trackboy · 22-25, M

@SilentKiller good got the meds and iv and oxygen going into him. too bad, there is no more that can be done. must be something more that can be done. 🍫

AlyAngel · F

That should not fall on you. I'm sorry 😞

SilentKiller · M

@AlyAngel definitely. But I understand her the best so it rather be me. I'm no way as strong as she is but I got to do it and be there for her. She's gonna take it bad. And after our incident, I actually don't know how to tell her

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