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Mum - I'm so Sorry ❤️❤️

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Mum, I would give my life for u. I didnt mean to hurt you or upset you. I would rather you slapped me or hit me, u not talking to me is driving me crazy and insane. You know I cannot do without you.

Mum warned me. My uncle is not in very good health but he's always a good person but he's very abrupt and sometimes inconsiderate at times. Recently he said something I didn't like and mum told me to let it go, his health isnt good and I must overlook it. So I told her I'm doing it for you only.

We went to visit, and I cannot remember the topic but my dad got mentioned and he made some comments I did not like. Mum looked at me and shook her head saying no to me. But I could feel myself getting heated up. The final straw came when he mentioned mum and how she did certain things incorrect and she screwed up and she's stupid and even my dad was stupid.

I lost it and I let him have it. I told him what for, highlighting whatever he screwed up in life and picked up a fork and told him never to mention mum again. In that rage mum tried to stop me and I told her to "be quiet". Probably shouldn't have but to defend her I couldn't help it.

No shes not talking to me and worse she gets a call that his health has reached a stage where nothing can be done.

I don't know what to do
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anoderod55 · 61-69, M
Sorry about your situation . My Dad was that way . nobody was immune to his rudeness .

You have to be the bigger person . Mom comes first . He may say things he doesn't realize he is saying and probably won't remember having said .

Wishing you luck 🙏🕯️ 🙏 🌹
@anoderod55 hi there 🙂

Not really worried about uncle for now. I understand mum's worry and disappointment. But she's not talking to me at all. I always told her that I wouldn't let anyone say anything about her. She warned me to overlook it but my instinct to protect her and defend her got the better of me. Now I don't know what to do cos she's totally ignoring me