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Trying to find a new normal

Tomorrow, the kids will be going back to school. Buddy and I will both be working from home, just in case tomorrow becomes too much for them or they realize they aren't quite ready yet.
They all say they're ready to go back, and maybe they are. But this is going to be a hard week, and we want to be close enough to get to them if they start feeling overwhelmed, sad, or simply need to come home.


As for me, I've got the flu and honestly feel miserable, but I'm going to power through the best I can. Right now, being available for them is what matters most.


I know going back to school doesn't mean everything suddenly goes back to normal. Their world has changed, and they're still learning how to carry something this heavy. So tomorrow, we're taking it one moment at a time. If they make it through the whole day, wonderful. If they need us after an hour, we'll be there.


They don't have to be strong all the time. They just need to know we're close.
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Boeing · 36-40
Is sometimes good to return to some sort of normalcy. New stimuli to keep them away from too much rumination. Yes, things aren't the same, but then life goes on and there's this energy about the beginning of the school year that is refreshing.. It gives them something to hold onto, to perhaps look forward to.
Even if hard at times.
Best of luck.
Cigarguys · 41-45, C
@Boeing thank you today was pretty good for them hopefully tomorrow will be the same
GoFish ·
Hope everything goes well and you feel better soon.
Cigarguys · 41-45, C
@GoFish they had a good day. They call came home happy.
GoFish ·
@Cigarguys aww sweet i'm glad ☺
Musicman · 61-69, M
God bless everyone 🙏🙏🙏 Being close by is definitely smart. Wishing everyone all the best.
Cigarguys · 41-45, C
@Musicman they all came home very happy
Remember be ready no matter what. They may enjoy being there. They may need to come home. Be ready for that. They may have a good day or a bad day. Just be ready. Don’t push it too much at work and I do hope you’re feeling better today Joel
Cigarguys · 41-45, C
@MyMonstersAreReal thankfully they came home very happy. Hopefully tomorrow will be the same
You're right in that nothing will be "normal" again for any of you - but you've all got to find a new normal now.

You might want to have a quiet word with their teachers about any activities pertaining to the school holidays, though... just in case anything there might remind them that their dad is gone now.
Cigarguys · 41-45, C
@HootyTheNightOwl we have had many phone calls, emails, text messages with all of their teachers. I just hope it goes okay tomorrow.
Gusman · 61-69, M
Yes, such a big day. I hope they can enjoy the day, among their friends.
The teachers will play a big role in how the day goes. I am sure the teachers are well versed when it comes to grief and loss in families.
Sending you positive vibes.
Cigarguys · 41-45, C
@Gusman everything went good and they all came home happy. Hopefully tomorrow will be the same
Gusman · 61-69, M
@Cigarguys Excellent news. I am so happy for the children and for you Joel.
A little normality was sorely needed.
Barefooter25 · 46-50, M
It's going to be tough for the kids this week. Hopefully the teachers and classmates all know the situation.
Cigarguys · 41-45, C
@Barefooter25 it went well today. I think it was good for them to be back at school.
Barefooter25 · 46-50, M
@Cigarguys That's great news Joel. The best thing to do is take things one day at a time. Best thing for them is a return to normalcy.

 
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