Do I tell the kids

@BecaA57 they have not heard from her since November. So yeah it's not good. She basically abandoned them

@Cigarguy That is terrible, I'm sorry for them. If they are old enough to know then you probably should tell them. That way if it comes out later, you won't have kept another secret from them

@BecaA57 they are 11 and 6

@Cigarguy Those are rough ages for that kind of news. How have they handled her leaving?

@BecaA57 at time's my boy is sad. He misses his mom. My daughter is very angry with her and wants to know why she left us.

@Cigarguy Then I don't think you should tell them about her marriage and especially that she is pregnant, would just be another case of her leaving them