Do I tell the kids

That their mother is getting married this weekend and is pregnant. I only found out from a old friend.

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BecaA57 · 61-69, F

Depends on their relationship with their mom. Guessing if they don't know that it isn't good. Also depends on how they would react to that news

Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M

@BecaA57 they have not heard from her since November. So yeah it's not good. She basically abandoned them

BecaA57 · 61-69, F

@Cigarguy101 That is terrible, I'm sorry for them. If they are old enough to know then you probably should tell them. That way if it comes out later, you won't have kept another secret from them

Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M

@BecaA57 they are 11 and 6

BecaA57 · 61-69, F

@Cigarguy101 Those are rough ages for that kind of news. How have they handled her leaving?

Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M

@BecaA57 at time's my boy is sad. He misses his mom. My daughter is very angry with her and wants to know why she left us.

BecaA57 · 61-69, F

@Cigarguy101 Then I don't think you should tell them about her marriage and especially that she is pregnant, would just be another case of her leaving them