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At least we won the series

And baby girl broke my heart and I don't know how to fix it.

So our daughter and I had a great afternoon watching the Royals even though we lost when we shouldn't of. We had lunch, we are cookies we cheered and got disappointed.

We had dinner and she had her cello lessons. She is getting so good. And man every time she plays it makes me cry. But the way she played tonight was almost sad, heart breaking really.

So we finished dinner and got ready for the royals second game. We watched it inside. We made s'mores and had the fireplace going and I was sitting by Joel on the couch, the boys were playing and watching TV on the toy blanket and she was in her bean bag chair.

Daddy will you sit with me

I of course said yes and we watched the game and cheered as we won the 2nd game. It was a g

They game was long even for a summer night it was every one's bed time.

She was getting ready for bed then she asked

Daddy can you work from home tomorrow I don't think I want to go to Grandma's


Now I was worried. I took her to her room and set her on her bed

Baby girl what is going on

She looks at me and starts crying.

I'm sorry Daddy I didn't know mommy left you because of me

Sweet heart hat's not true

mom left because of me. I'm sorry Daddy. I so so sorry.

Who told you that

Grandma did. She sent me a text message. She said Mommy couldn't handle my issues and that is why she left us.

I don't know if anyone was ever felt every emotion hit your body at once but holly shit it doesn't feel good at all.

Baby girl no that's not true at all. Your mommy left because I'm a mess and she couldn't deal with it.

Don't lie to me Daddy that's not true.

Holly fucking shit what did my fucking mother text her.

Honey she left because of the both of us.

I don't know if that was the right thing to say. I'm sure it wasn't but it was the truth my wife left me because she couldn't deal with my tourette's and she left my daughter because she couldn't deal with her special needs. She left out son because of us. Who do you tell a 12 year old child this. How do I fix this.

I never wanted my daughter to know this, to feel the pain and to feel bad for who she is. But my mother felt she should know the truth and I don't know how to fix it. To help her. I can deal with it but I never wanted her to feel it. Joel and I are both talking tomorrow off. To be with her to try and fix it.

This is my worst nightmare come try
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Poppies · 61-69, F
I think you need to change your daughter's cell phone number, make it impossible for your mother to communicate with her. Nothing you've said about your mother has ever made it sound like she's a friend to you or your children.
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
@Poppies we are doing that today. And I've blocked her from my phone as well
Barefooter25 · 46-50, M
What a cruel and horrible thing to say to a young child. Hopefully you already blocked your mom's number on your daughter's phone.
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
@Barefooter25 yes she is blocked from all of our phones. And we changed our daughter phone number as well
Gibbon · 70-79, M
Your mom was so wrong to put that on her now true or not.
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
@Gibbon I don't understand why she sent her the text. I don't know what to do
Gibbon · 70-79, M
@Cigarguy101 Well a good talk to your mom to explain why her timing is wrong. But the damage is done. I have no worthwhile experience to suggest anything to fix other than convince her it's not her fault. Which is true. She had no control over the issues she was born with.
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
@Gibbon my mom is a evil cold person and it will bring me no sadness to cut her out of our lives. Now all I can do is comfort our daughter and just help her cope with this.
kodiac · 22-25, M
Tell her she actually left because of your mother .
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
@kodiac my x wife liked my mother she was the one that got me speaking to her in the first place.
kodiac · 22-25, M
@Cigarguy101 well it seems like it would be better for her to believe that instead of blaming her self . Really it seems like you ex just chose her own comfort over that of her family and I'd tell her that also.
You dont hava mom anemore end of story
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
@TryingtoLava yep she is blocked from all our phones and I'm going to change our daughter number today
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Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
@basilfawlty89 I am blocking her number from all of our phones. She will never hurt my baby girl like that again

 
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