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Mother in law’s funeral

Should I go to ex mother-in-law’s funeral ? Not seen her in 15 years but known her since I was 17 would it upset the ex wife in an upsetting time.
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Carissimi · F
I wouldn’t, not with that length of time, you haven’t been in her life. It may be different if you didn’t have an ex, and you don’t know how she, and the rest of family feels about you showing up uninvited. Leave them to their grief, and you can send a card or note, and perhaps visit the grave later, to pay your respects.