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Carissimi · F
I wouldn’t, not with that length of time, you haven’t been in her life. It may be different if you didn’t have an ex, and you don’t know how she, and the rest of family feels about you showing up uninvited. Leave them to their grief, and you can send a card or note, and perhaps visit the grave later, to pay your respects.