Mother in law’s funeral

Should I go to ex mother-in-law’s funeral ? Not seen her in 15 years but known her since I was 17 would it upset the ex wife in an upsetting time.

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Ynotisay · M

If I were you I would absolutely go but checking in with your ex-wife first might be a good call. This has to be all about her.

Barny52 · 56-60, M

@Ynotisay yes but sure she will say ok but it still may be uncomfortable for her

ArtieKat · M

@Barny52 I also think it would be right to check - if the ex says "yes" then go for a short while to pay your respects but don't hang around