I Am a Father It would be my child's first birthday some time in the next couple of weeks....

summersong · F

❤
I think picking a day sounds like a good idea, so you have the space reserved to honor and recognize your loss.

SW-User

I can't decide whether remembering is good or not, so for the time being, I'm in denial.

Hugs you

SW-User

@CheshireCatalyst You can still change your mind.
There aren't any rules for this sort of thing.

CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M

@SW-User I know, my wife has a name and I asked her recently to tell me it but she won't now because she wants to protect me from it. :/

SW-User

@CheshireCatalyst Awwww.
I guess you've still got the option. (We both know you could find out if you decide you need to know.) x

PoetryNEmotion · 61-69, F

I am sorry for what happened. You should do whatever feels right for you. And find a way to celebrate. Plant a tree. Have a small gathering. It is up to you.

marsbar · F

I’m so sorry to hear about this. Picking a date would be a good idea. I hope you & your wife will be ok in the coming weeks. 💗

SW-User

Choosing a day and a way to mark it would be a focus for your feelings and grief. I think it is a lovely idea xx

SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

How about that last day. Like a rebirth.

CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M

@SW-User the due date would've been late March early April 2017 but it never came to pass.

SW-User

@CheshireCatalyst damn. Sure it’s an emotional time. Help each other through it.