I Am a Father
No Notifications
Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »

I Am a Father

It would be my child's first birthday some time in the next couple of weeks. Obviously we'll never know for sure when the date would've been but it's strange not to have a day to mark to passage of time.

Maybe we should just choose one arbitrarily. To help us remember.
CheshireCatalyst
41-45, M
18 replies 68 views Mar 20, 2018
Share Link
Top | New | Old
summersong · F
❤
I think picking a day sounds like a good idea, so you have the space reserved to honor and recognize your loss.
+ 2 · Reply · Translate · Mar 20, 2018
SW-User
I can't decide whether remembering is good or not, so for the time being, I'm in denial.

Hugs you
+ 1 · Reply · Translate · Mar 21, 2018
SW-User
@CheshireCatalyst You can still change your mind.
There aren't any rules for this sort of thing.
+ 1 · Reply · Translate · Mar 21, 2018
CheshireCatalyst · 41-45, M
@SW-User I know, my wife has a name and I asked her recently to tell me it but she won't now because she wants to protect me from it. :/
+ 1 · Reply · Translate · Mar 21, 2018
SW-User
@CheshireCatalyst Awwww.
I guess you've still got the option. (We both know you could find out if you decide you need to know.) x
+ 1 · Reply · Translate · Mar 21, 2018
PoetryNEmotion · F
I am sorry for what happened. You should do whatever feels right for you. And find a way to celebrate. Plant a tree. Have a small gathering. It is up to you.
+ 1 · Reply · Translate · Mar 20, 2018
marsbar · F
I’m so sorry to hear about this. Picking a date would be a good idea. I hope you & your wife will be ok in the coming weeks. 💗
+ 1 · Reply · Translate · Mar 21, 2018
SW-User
Choosing a day and a way to mark it would be a focus for your feelings and grief. I think it is a lovely idea xx
+ 1 · Reply · Translate · Mar 21, 2018
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
How about that last day. Like a rebirth.
+ 1 · Reply · Translate · Mar 20, 2018
ZenKitzune · F
((hugs))
+ 1 · Reply · Translate · Mar 20, 2018
SW-User
🤗
+ 1 · Reply · Translate · Mar 21, 2018
SW-User
How long has it been?
+ 0 · Reply · Translate · Mar 20, 2018
CheshireCatalyst · 41-45, M
@SW-User the due date would've been late March early April 2017 but it never came to pass.
+ 1 · Reply · Translate · Mar 20, 2018
SW-User
@CheshireCatalyst damn. Sure it’s an emotional time. Help each other through it.
+ 1 · Reply · Translate · Mar 20, 2018
Gangstress · 41-45, F
Big hugs x
+ 0 · Reply · Translate · Mar 21, 2018
 
Post Comment