Is it wrong/bad to want someone dependable.... as a partner.

Because whenever i depend on anyone emotionally, mentally, physically, etc i get betaryed or disrespected or abused... They think i am weak.. and try to take advantage of me or bully me.

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greensnacks · F

Why do you want them to be dependable? To feel wanted and needed? If so, you're insecure and you should work on yourself instead of trying to outsource the feeling

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@greensnacks to feel secure....

greensnacks · F

@sahi81 I mixed up the words. To have someone to trust in, no that's not bad. But the best person you should always rely on the most ur looking at it in the mirror

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@greensnacks that's better than living in fears

bijouxbroussard · F

@greensnacks Maybe it’s generational.