He isnt the one. Realize this and move on.

Here are some signs that someone might not be the right person for you:
Lack of communication
Disinterest in the future
Emotional unavailability
Unwillingness to compromise
Lack of respect
Dishonesty
Different values:
Feeling unfulfilled
You're always the one apologizing
Your partner says they aren't ready for marriage
You aren't a priority

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MellyMel22 · F

My kids’ dad fits all of that and more except he wanted to get married. I wouldn’t wish him on anyone.

Hope you’re okay 🤍

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scooogy · 31-35, MVIP

@MellyMel22 but how would you get into a relationship then?

MellyMel22 · F

@scooogy I don’t have an interest in that right now. If it happens it happens. I’m not one who looks for it.

scooogy · 31-35, MVIP

@MellyMel22 okay 😭

KingofBones1 · 46-50, M

Exactly. Boy have I been there I dealt with quite a few of those in my lifetime. Or the controlling one that don't want you to have any friends want to isolate you from your family don't want you speaking to anyone but them and finding fault in everything you do you could go out to check the mailbox until the mail person thank you for bringing the mail and then all the sudden you're an a****** because how dare you ignore them to speak to the mail person or some s*** like that. People are on all kind of f*** s*** nowadays and that's the reason I mainly stick to myself

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justcallmenameless1 · 36-40, F

@KingofBones1 we are good now. I accept all your apologies.

KingofBones1 · 46-50, M

@justcallmenameless1 yours too baby. I think we made up pretty nicely. By the way it's good to see you beautiful

justcallmenameless1 · 36-40, F

@KingofBones1 thanks you too

Gibbon · 70-79, M

Except for the marriage one every one applies on its own.
You have to give allowance to those couples that have had several bad marriages already and are completely happy together without that document. There are also financial advantages to not having it to each of them.

Lostpoet · M

😡We have the same values, we are both christians.

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justcallmenameless1 · 36-40, F

@Lostpoet read my message

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justcallmenameless1 · 36-40, F

@Lostpoet and thats where it ends. We are both Christians. Other than that. Nothing.

Livingwell · 61-69, M

You covered them all IMHO. I'm sorry you are still hurting.. 🤗

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Livingwell · 61-69, M

@justcallmenameless1 My concern is that you are still experiencing heartache.

justcallmenameless1 · 36-40, F

@Livingwell yeah thats too bad. I guess i thought things were different than they appear to be. At one time i could walk away easily and never look back. I just need to get that attitude back once more.

Livingwell · 61-69, M

@justcallmenameless1 I hope one day you heart heals and you can move on with your head held hi. Some hit us different and are hard to shake. Someone out there is a man that can communicate. Even without words. You are worth it Melissa.