Is it healthy to still love your ex?

You're not *in love* anymore but you know that deep down you love them, and it's mutual.

You wish them peace and you help them when they need it yet keep a safe distance.

Is indifference even a legit option?

Because it seems too ideal to be true.

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Disgustedman · 61-69, M

I can assure you that it's okay to love and like your ex. My sister had divorced hers after nearly 12 years of marriage due to alcohol. But she forgave him and she several times had parties with him invited along with his new wife.

That's being the forgiving person and they really had a good time which was very surprising.

SW-User

That sounds like the definition of both inner & outer peace @Disgustedman