do you believe some people are just not met to be in relationships? am I one of them?

My parents divorce 4 months (in 1987) after I was born and were always fighting until my father passed away in 2003

I started watching porn when I was 6

grew up with male siblings who made poor choices with women

always been a drama queen magnet

I only had one relationship in my life and it was short and not meaningful

I been frequent strip clubs since I was 18

all the sexual stuff I do 90% of the time is either with strippers or other sex workers

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Starcrossed · 41-45, F

I think most of us are meant to be in relationships, just some of us have traumas that affect how we engage with others, sometimes to our detriment.

There is some theory behind those of us whom survive and even thrive whilst alone. This is a human survival strategy that has carried some of us through times of scarcity so our whole kind could persist.