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I Want to Be In a Healthy Loving Relationship

Modern dating is strange. I get that everyone is different, but I don’t relate to wanting to date multiple people. If I don’t get the impression I have enough chemistry where someone is worth seeing exclusively then I don’t feel like giving that anymore time/energy, or I tell them flat out the spark isn’t there, but if they’re a cool person then we can be friends. I don’t feel ‘tied down’ by exploring that connection deeply without keeping my ‘options open’, nor do I feel bound. It’s not as though by being exclusive we’re picking out rings. Lol..
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Everyone got side hoes and Tinder these days
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@SW-User lol I feel like I wasted my 20s adhereing to modern dating, superficial bs because it was the thing to do. I’m glad by the time I got to my late 20s/30s people were starting to be less flippant/less games.
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@SW-User tbf you lucked out as there are too many people who marry young only to end up as divorcees before 30
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@SW-User agreed haha. I just made a joke to someone about that the other day