I Want to Be In a Healthy Loving Relationship

Modern dating is strange. I get that everyone is different, but I don’t relate to wanting to date multiple people. If I don’t get the impression I have enough chemistry where someone is worth seeing exclusively then I don’t feel like giving that anymore time/energy, or I tell them flat out the spark isn’t there, but if they’re a cool person then we can be friends. I don’t feel ‘tied down’ by exploring that connection deeply without keeping my ‘options open’, nor do I feel bound. It’s not as though by being exclusive we’re picking out rings. Lol..

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SW-User

I have only had to be involved with modern dating in the last couple of years, and i haven't found it enjoyable at all. I have been married most of my life so i feel completely inexperienced with the whole dating thing and it seems daunting.

SW-User

@SW-User my recommendation is to get to know people, but after a couple weeks if they still don’t know what they want to move along . Really takes the guesswork out, and makes the whole dating process simpler .

SW-User

@SW-User Thanks, that does make sense.