well the unexpected happened

apologies for anyone i’ve not replied to. see after my father/grandfather passed away. 17 days later my other grandfather went to the doctors where they told him everything was fine and he was okay. 4 hours later a blood clot entered his brain and within 3 minutes of that happened he sadly joined my father/grandfather and passed away too💔losing this many people such a short time has been truly devastating

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Mamapolo2016 · F

Losses like this are like earthquakes. Sudden and unexpected, and the world you just lived in yesterday has changed dramatically. It’s tough to deal with, but I am completely sure that your loved ones, alive or dead, want you to learn from it, to learn how to handle grief (which usually gradually becomes an empty ache) and joy. Yes, those two can coexist. You can honor those who were important to you and still be happy. Not happy, maybe, the way you were before, but happy just the same.

I strongly recommend you look for support groups to help you through it. If the first one doesn’t fit, find another. They are online and in real life.

My deep sympathies for your losses. When the pain eases a bit, think about why you loved them, and try to be the sort of people they were. That is their most valuable gift to you.

BabyDolls · 22-25, T

@Mamapolo2016 thank you for your words❤

HijabaDabbaDoo · F

That's such unfortunate news. I'm really sorry. How are you holding up?

BabyDolls · 22-25, T

@HijabaDabbaDoo thank you so much! honestly i’m feeling really lost at the moment, my life at the moment is pretty much funeral arrangements for both sides. i keep praying for answers i just know aren’t coming

HijabaDabbaDoo · F

@BabyDolls grief is a tricky thing, it comes in waves and is felt in depth. I'm here if you ever wanna talk. I hope you heal in time💙

BabyDolls · 22-25, T

@HijabaDabbaDoo thank you so much❤i’ll message you in a few days i promise🩷

OlderSometimesWiser · F

I’m very sorry for your tragic losses.

BabyDolls · 22-25, T

@OlderSometimesWiser thank you it truly means a lot

Cigarguy · M

I am so sorry for your loss.

BabyDolls · 22-25, T

@Cigarguy thank you so much❤

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