is it right i feel annoyed when my mum doesn't ring me 9pm on the dot every night

my mum phones me 3 times a day, the last call is at 9pm every evening, i lean on my mother for support a lot with my psychological problems and just like to chat....but sometimes she forgets to ring me at 9pm on the dot and will phone at 9:30pm or even 10pm at times, when ive questioned my mother about it she said she was sorry and didn't realize the time...i do understand but still feel annoyed she didn't ring me 9 o clock on the dot.

am i wrong for being impatient like this and always expecting mental support from my mum? she has been a big support to me throughout my life....but many times we have clashed and fallen out...had heated arguments....so its not always been great with my mum, but still we are close..

any thoughts?

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Gusman · 61-69, M

Try not to be annoyed. Your Mother has her own life to live.
It is nice of her to ring you so you have someone to talk to. 21 times a week, surely your Mother should be allowed the latitude to not have to ring every time.
Why do you not ring her?

Jenny1234 · 51-55, F

Yeah you’re quite impatient. Give her a break. Why would you need to talk to her three times a day?

hunkalove · 61-69, M

I didn't like it when my mother called me every three months. Three years was best.

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