So I guess my mom found out I’m on my last legs and wants to visit
I haven’t seen her in over five years. I’ve talked to her a couple times and changed my phone number after each.
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HoeBag · 46-50, F
Hmm, I guess giving family advice is difficult, especially people who are not family.
Best I can say is - Well, MAYBE things will be patched up (I have no clue the situation) or maybe it will be yet another draining experience, which is probably what you are anticipating.
I would say that if you do visit, it couldn't be any worse than you expect, and might be better. Of course if she does visit and things do not go well, it might be even more painful.
It is not easy because I imagine at this point, you are VERY selective about how and with whom you spend your time.
As you already know, if you do accept a visit, just plan for the worst and hope for the best.
Best I can say is - Well, MAYBE things will be patched up (I have no clue the situation) or maybe it will be yet another draining experience, which is probably what you are anticipating.
I would say that if you do visit, it couldn't be any worse than you expect, and might be better. Of course if she does visit and things do not go well, it might be even more painful.
It is not easy because I imagine at this point, you are VERY selective about how and with whom you spend your time.
As you already know, if you do accept a visit, just plan for the worst and hope for the best.