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My Mom Threatened To Have Me Evicted & Bedroom Door Taken Down For Disobedience

Idk what to do at this point because my dad told me he's gonna evict me if I call the cops on her, economy sucks so even finding a low end job is difficult, homeless shelters and subsidized housing have long waitlists. For context my mom punished me by boycotting cooking meals for me because I told her to shut up repeatedly when she kept raging like a Karen at me and my sister for being failures (don't really wanna get into it).

Today she then decided to do the aforementioned and considering she's made criminal threats to me before, I'm not gonna back down and I need to take action. I know legally she can take the bedroom door down and have me evicted, but she lacks the true authority to do so (that'd be my dad) and also iirc uttering such threats can still be criminal. I've already notified my dad about this, but he's currently at work and he almost got reprimanded for calling during his shift before.
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PeachyK · 100+, F Best Comment
I know its hard but you have to stop depending on your parents. You are a grown adult responsible for your own self. Figure it out. Get professional help. A therapist can help you learn independence and self esteem.
uikakarotuevegeta · 26-30, M
@PeachyK I'm not gonna leave my bedroom atm until my dad comes back from work in the morning, sorry; I'll only briefly leave it to use the bathroom but that's it
PeachyK · 100+, F
@uikakarotuevegeta remote online jobs are a thing
uikakarotuevegeta · 26-30, M
@PeachyK yeah and I've applied to dozens of them before, and not a single interview except a few that seemed like scams
PeachyK · 100+, F
@uikakarotuevegeta then you need to go out there and pound the pavement. Or be working your bum off to help around the house and your community. Do something productive. While your body is able.
uikakarotuevegeta · 26-30, M
@PeachyK i tried to get into the skilled trades but most employers ignored me or they wanted someone with experience
uikakarotuevegeta · 26-30, M
@PeachyK i do have my automation startup but it's stuck in the seed stage and pre-revenue, and obviously with my current situation i gotta delay that for now

As for contributing to the community, I did apply for a volunteering role somewhere but gotta wait for them to choose me for an interview. And also I was gonna volunteer at the library next to the hospital...until my mom did what she did today.